Why would inviting him to dinner be a DB failure???

I invited FW to dinner all the the time while we were apart. As long as you don't bring up touchy subjects at dinner (R talk, OW, etc) and keep it light and fun then everything should be OK.

Just make sure to be fun and upbeat and act "as if" if you go to dinner with him again. Show him your changes, put on makeup and sexy clothes, etc etc. Let him get a little taste of what he is missing just stay away from heavy subjects.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections