Reason to Believe on the Lake Erie Shore

[The Wifey]

(((Neil)))

She is saying that you are making it obvious that you are trying, but too obvious. Remember not having expectations? Its ok Neil, I know it stings.

Keep being the sweet, wonderful Neil without bringing her coffee. Focus on the girls. Give her space to breath.

The DR book says that when we push too much that we become all they can focus on. By backing off a little more she can start to think and feel her emotions, and start to realize what she will lose.

You need to know that we love you here. We are with you. And you can put your energy into the girls and into GAL and into helping all of us in return. Its a longer road than either one of us want it to be, Neil. I know, but we aren't done yet. YOU AND I ARE NOT DONE YET!

Take comfort that you have the girls and an opportunity to show her over and over how you are changing. She notices the changes, now it will just take time for her to know that the changes are permanent.