I was stationed in Millington for 9 months for Avionics school. How far are you from there?
It is probably a good thing to get out of there for a bit, she does sound like she's gone a bit kooky. No need to put yourself through that or have her put you in jail on BS. Hopefully with a little space she'll settle down.
Take care man!
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do
All I can offer is that I have a better relationship with my son now than I think I could ever have had if his mother and I had stayed together - it's not something a lot of people like to hear - but it's true...I became a better father after my first marriage ended - because I had to be. From everything I've read from you - I can see that you have an abundance of love that will always be there for your daughter.
I was stationed in Millington for 9 months for Avionics school. How far are you from there?
It is probably a good thing to get out of there for a bit, she does sound like she's gone a bit kooky. No need to put yourself through that or have her put you in jail on BS. Hopefully with a little space she'll settle down.
Take care man!
Millington is near Memphis. I'm on the other end of the state.
Sad, I'm done. I'm getting Divorced. I will not be back. This will be my last week here. I called done about a month ago.
Mike, I'm sorry you are done - but sometimes, that's the right decision. As you said, no one else walks in your shoes, and no one else can call that for you.
I'm glad you are getting some space from her. I hope things start looking up for you soon as a result.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
I definitely hear you...and understand on taking that step. It is like you said, you have to decide when you are done. I'm sorry that things didn't work out, but I do feel things happen for a reason. I do appreciate all of the advice you've given and will definitely miss your input here on the boards.
Take care man
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do
Mike, while all of this has been crazy and your W has been so unpredictable, I am glad she is letting you get your stuff out and without her there.
I believe once you fully get out and are on your own things will get better and probably even with her. Not meaning reconciliation, meaning day to day co parenting will become much easier to deal with.
I know this may sound strange, but in a big way today I am very happy for you. You have been dealing with this insanity for to long and do not need to be there with her anymore.
I'm so sorry about the hole in your heart and missing your daughter. I have a volatile temper at times and there are some things I'd like to do to your stbxw right now. BatshIt crazy, she is.
It'll be over soon enough. Try not to do anything to set her off. Be very very careful.
Love you, bro.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
do appreciate all of the advice you've given and will definitely miss your input here on the boards.
that was a typo on my part..I meant that would this would be the last week in the house with STBX..not the last week on the board..I know you want rid of me but it ain't that easy boys and girls..
Mike, while all of this has been crazy and your W has been so unpredictable, I am glad she is letting you get your stuff out and without her there.
I believe once you fully get out and are on your own things will get better and probably even with her. Not meaning reconciliation, meaning day to day co parenting will become much easier to deal with.
I know this may sound strange, but in a big way today I am very happy for you. You have been dealing with this insanity for to long and do not need to be there with her anymore.
You call me anytime you need to buddy......
Ian
I will Ian. I'm tired and of course sad. Lots of sorrow, sadness and negativity in my family at the moment so the move is not being made any easier. I really can't stand negativity at the mometn and find myself short with the people who project it.
