I'm hardly one with loads of wisdom, but do have a WAH. The only advice that I can give is that which has been given to me numerous times:
1)Don't make this a self-fulfilling prophecy by expecting the worst. Try as much as possible to go into this with no expectations about what she is going to say.
2) Remember not to believe everything the WAS says. You haven't been separated very long, and I'm sure she's still processing things.
3)Even if you are dying inside, see this as an opportunity to show her how strong you are, by just listening to everything she says, even if she says the worst. This will really surprise her and perhaps leave her feeling a bit unsure and unsettled.
4)By being strong and showing her that she shouldn't feel guilty, you have a better chance that she actually won't leave, because she will think that you are capable of handling this all.
Best of luck. Please update us on how it goes!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
