Thanks all ,I'm trying to relax and take it a bit slow.My feelings are so back and forth at this point.I want her to come back and our time together is nice but when all is said and done she leaves to be with OM.Wish there was a magic bullit hehe.But I feel I am making progress,I stopped by her classroom yesterday on my way home from work and helped her move heavy stuff and unpack some things(she is a school teacher).I think she appreciated the help.I am resolved to not call or persue her,even thou every fiber of my being wants too.

Jeff


M 44
W 40
D 21
S 14
Married 20yrs
Together 23yrs
Bomb on 5/14/08 discovered OM
W moved out 5/17/08
w filed for D Feb 09
D final 10/18/09