1) is there anything your husband did or said to get you to realize what you were doing was wrong?

2) even though you left, were you still doubting your decision ? did you show it outwardly ? could he tell anyway ?

3) if you left for someone else, or wanted to leave but didn't have the guts til someone else showed interest, did it work out with OM ? if not, please explain why.

4) did your husband expose your affair to your family and people close to you? if so, what impact did it have on your train of thought?

5) even though you told your husband you didn't love him anymore, did you really ?

6) how long after you left did you start considering coming back, if you have or did at all ?

7) if you have a young child together, and I'm sure you considered staying for their sake, were they the deciding factor in coming back, or were your spouse's changes the reason ? none of the above ?


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love