I've never had a "low libido level," but I wouldn't mind the celibacy so much if it weren't for the fact that I'm afraid it's going to be for the rest of my life. As sick of this mess as I am, I will continue to stand forever, because I consider myself married in God's eyes as long as H and I are both alive...regardless of anything H does, legally or with anyone else. My belief is that once it's done (M in God's view), nothing can undo it short of death.
My xH married the OW July 20th, now what?? I also believe once is done. Althought I'm a 2nd wife, but his 1st had affairs the whole time they were M, they were M 5 years. We did it right & knew what we wanted. Now this MLC's came along & he has lost his mind!!!
