Tostada my 2 cents for what it is worth. To me you sound needy and are pursuing. i don't know if your W senses it but i have a hunch she does. Where do you go from here? GAL, go dark and let her go......whatever you are doing is not working. Try something new. You have every right to be pissed. The next time she gets on you for not telling her where you and the kids are going, simply tell her that you expect the same from her. SELFISH....you are right....the only thing you can do is wait till she comes back to being her old self. If and when she does is another question. My sense from your posts is you are definately not detached. Good luck....please try to take care of yourself for a while. If you are in this for the long run, PATIENCE .....my friend.
