OK I am back....BTW, above breats should be breasts, obviously....I tried to edit my post but it said the time had expired? Weird. Anyway...
Now Baggy, I know that you have children and the whole relationship is different at your home than at my empty nest. But here's the deal...even though I don't have children with my fiance, I know that if we did have them together, he would still be the same seducing beautiful creature he is today. He would still demand to be able to have access to my body (to caress it, kiss me, hold me tightly, and to have me touch him, too). I know that even if we had little kids around, he would still shove me up against a wall and kiss me deeply frequently...and even if a kid did pop around the corner and caught us, well...you know, that isn't such a bad thing for a kid to see. You know?
As long as neither of you were showing any skin, a kid really SHOULD see passion between his parents, and catching them by accident is even more healthy for the kid. It would give the kid a sense that "mom and dad sneak off to be oogy-googy together", which is a positive message.
So my point is this...you have to take this role on yourself first and BE that man who can and will take his woman for a quicky deeply passionate 5 minutes of making out, whenever you want to. If you do it correctly, she will be in that heightened state of arousal for 24 hours afterward, and she will be thinking about you and the sexy encounter (just under the surface of her consciousness) that whole time. This is what I meant when I said most of the seduction efforts my man does go on in my own mind.
To be sure, you know I am not suggesting you just start slamming your wife up against a wall once a day. BUT...I bet if you give it a try just ONCE in the next few days, grab a handful of some part of her body or her hair when she isnt expecting it and as she is opening her mouth to either gasp or protest, you plant a deep kiss on her before she can get the words out...then work with the kiss and the caress for at least 10 full seconds before you let her up for air...then touch her face and tell her "You know, sometimes the world will try to get in the way, but I wanted to remind you that you are still MINE and mine first". Then release her and go on with your business.
She will still be breathless for a few moments, then she will shake it off. But the NEXT DAY while she is going about some mundane task...her mind will find that memory and it will put some loving magical sexual energy into her spirit - she will be suddenly BLASTED mentally with the fun and breathless factor of your stolen kiss.
If you can do this once in a while, and then more and more often...well you get the picture. If you can show her that you are interested in a brief wonderful very sexually energized encounter with her nearly every day, and it does not have to lead to sex, and that you WILL show some playful dominance over her like that "when the kids aren't looking", then she will be able to find her sexy MILF within even during the normal family busy day.
