Yes Steelers is right. Do not send anything to your w at this point. She won't get what you are trying to do and see it as pushing your views in her face. This is exactly what my h saw.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"