Sooners

You posted do not say ILY. It greatly depends on how far along the spouse is in this jounrey. My H and I tell each all the time we love each other even though he is not living here.

He started saying it first, not me, so I am comfortable with that.

Don't send your spouse anything at this point in time. Keep it to yourself, work on your walk with God for now.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19