Bethie, we have nothing in writing as yet -- we STILL don't have a separation agreement worked out. This may be W's way of provoking me into addressing that issue.

W probably thinks she has cover on the decision for daycare. She will say that she tried to consult with me about switching preschools, but I tarried too long in helping make a decision, so she had to go ahead and act. Or some lame rationale like that.

Likewise, on the contact list, she also covered herself to a small degree by including two others of her co-workers on the list too. This means she can say that these are all just good "friends" and trustworthy co-workers, including OM.

Tal, you're in no way old. Quit that! Although a bad cold can make you feel old. And I've still got a lingering sore throat -- so I sound like an old man right now. \:D

Lwb, S3 told me he actually enjoyed his new preschool. I asked him did he make any new friends. He said, "Daddy, I have lots of new friends." So he seems happy to make the switch. If so, and if this remains so, I will just put up with a more hectic drive for his sake.

Yoyo, round 'em up. And don't forget Sassie's whips while you're at it. What? go after W? No, not really necessary, thanks -- I was just getting a little "worked up" over the thought of all you lovely DB ladies saddling up together on my behalf.

I can't tell you how much I love ya'll. Hugs.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.