Bethie, we have nothing in writing as yet -- we STILL don't have a separation agreement worked out. This may be W's way of provoking me into addressing that issue.
W probably thinks she has cover on the decision for daycare. She will say that she tried to consult with me about switching preschools, but I tarried too long in helping make a decision, so she had to go ahead and act. Or some lame rationale like that.
Likewise, on the contact list, she also covered herself to a small degree by including two others of her co-workers on the list too. This means she can say that these are all just good "friends" and trustworthy co-workers, including OM.
Tal, you're in no way old. Quit that! Although a bad cold can make you feel old. And I've still got a lingering sore throat -- so I sound like an old man right now.
Lwb, S3 told me he actually enjoyed his new preschool. I asked him did he make any new friends. He said, "Daddy, I have lots of new friends." So he seems happy to make the switch. If so, and if this remains so, I will just put up with a more hectic drive for his sake.
Yoyo, round 'em up. And don't forget Sassie's whips while you're at it. What? go after W? No, not really necessary, thanks -- I was just getting a little "worked up" over the thought of all you lovely DB ladies saddling up together on my behalf.