I'm always looking around for anything new of help or encouragement. Just things that may be of help to me or anyone else. Just trying to learn as much as I can, but really I think God is telling me to spend some time in the word. I want to learn the bible better, I think it would help me with my sitch.
Sooners, Agree about learning God's Word. It's essential to a close walk with him. Can you find a good Bible Study group to join, besides your own study time?
You posted do not say ILY. It greatly depends on how far along the spouse is in this jounrey. My H and I tell each all the time we love each other even though he is not living here.
He started saying it first, not me, so I am comfortable with that.
Don't send your spouse anything at this point in time. Keep it to yourself, work on your walk with God for now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sooners, I was priveledged to see the premier of the movie fireproof with my h. He enjoyed it, but he is not home yet. Is there anyway that you could ask your w to attend with you?
I am not sure if you are at that level and she would be open, but it doesn't hurt to ask.
Bring your tissues. I cried throughout for everything that we lost meaning our m. I did see my h wipe a tear here and there.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Yes Steelers is right. Do not send anything to your w at this point. She won't get what you are trying to do and see it as pushing your views in her face. This is exactly what my h saw.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"