Hello everyone. Thanks for all who have stopped by and checked on me. I appreciate it.
There are only 3 people on this board who truly know what has transpired over the last week. I'll share what's happened with the rest now so you will know where I am in all this and thus you will understand the thread title a bit better.
Last Thursday I was out with my D and got home about 7:10pm. I got D is and got her settled and let my STBX's dogs outside. While getting D settled the phone rang and it was STBX, 30 minutes out and leaving a message asking me to feed the dogs. Well I did not get the dogs fed. This led to drama from STBX which led to STBX raising up her shirt sleeve and showing me scratches caused by her dogs. She then threatened to call the authorities and tell them that I had caused those scratches. She also informed me that I was not to take anymore of the items we had agreed that I could take, out of the house. She also informed me I needed to leave "her house" immediately..I called my L on Friday for advice and he was in court all day. I rode out the weekend OK with no drama. I talked to my L this morning and the L advised me to get all my stuff out of this house and run. He is afraid that she will trump up charges against me. When L told me this I then decided I would move this week. Just after talking with my L my STBX emails me that her dad and step mom are coming up this Friday to stay and I needed to be out the house and staying somewhere else on those two days. I responded back that If I could go ahead and move my stuff then their visit would be fine but If I could not have my stuff then they would need to make other arrangements. My STBX responded back that I could have my stuff and I needed to be out by Friday. Instead of responding to my STBX's note, I immediately left work and headed home to retrieve some stuff and begin moving. STBX was at work so it worked out good. Now fast forward to about 7pm tonight.
When I got home tonight I ask my STBX how she would like me to proceed with the move. I told her I would like to proceed with the move unencumbered and her not here. I told her this could be documented by Video if she needed and we could tape exactly what she wanted me to have and then go back and check the tape vs. what I moved to show that I had truly taken only what we had agreed upon. My STBX said no that she trusted me to take only what we agreed on. I told her I wanted to take only what I came in with and what I had truly bought and paid for..she has agreed. I will move this over the next few days. She will not be here. All this will work out great as long as she does not change her mind.
Now you know the story. It has not been pleasant but I have been OK through today. I had some feelings surface today due to the unexpected development. I am very sad. Not due to the fact that it is now over and I am moving but feel a great sense of loss of my D. I already miss her and it pains me tremendously that I will not see or hear her daily. There is a giant hole in my heart. I miss my D already.
so there it is. Now you know. I have laid it all out again. So tomorrow the move continues. I'll be out of here by Friday and into my new place. The kitchen will not be finished and the living room will be a staging area for tools and supplies so I won't be able to use it at all until the kitchen is done. I am also suffering some angst due to the fact that I may not have internet access at my new place for a few days so I won't have this place to come too.
Please say a prayer for me this week. I'll try to check in when I can.
