Had a great "phone meeting" with my H over our agreement. I know--you're surprised by my use of the word great, right? Well, he was super-grumpy when we started off, but I was calm and validating and loving the whole time, and I managed to turn the whole damn thing into a friendly conversation where he was warm and sweet and wishing me a great couple days until we see each other for our anniversary dinner on Wed.
It was perfect!!! grin
Plus, I found out that the initial way he was with me is indicative of his interactions with everyone right now (at least the grumpy part anyway). He's not being himself AT ALL right now. I knew that before from friends, but I heard it from the horse's mouth--he told me he feels like he has a wall between himself and the rest of the world. I told him that I am very sorry to hear that, and that things will get better.
BTW--I heard that divorce does not automatically make people happy and carefree as cavorting children. Have you guys heard that before?!
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
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I told him that I am very sorry to hear that, and that things will get better.
