It's my sincere theory that maybe the GF has XH's huevos buried in her mom's backyard. Just sayin'.
Hope you had a fabulous weekend! I still say, do what you need to do to make yourself happy. He is a messed up little dude...sad, but not your responsibility or making.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!