Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

[Imageer]

My thread seems to be missing so I thought I would start another.

I haven't much to say lately, so I haven't been on much.

I finally got my new place. It's great and exactly what I wanted/needed right now. Although, at the same time it is a little depressing because it is the first place I've owned without my W. W has also moved in to the house that her and OW bought together. I should have my internet set up soon so I might be on here a little more.

Because we both now own separate houses, I has pretty much cornered in to signing a sep. agreement. We went back and forth on the details for a couple of weeks. The main sticking point was what was going to happen to her engagement ring. My argument was that I didn't want it sold and that I wanted it to be kept for the kids. Her argument was that I was trying to control her (?????....must be an MLC thing). I ended up getting upset with her and told her that I was disappointed in how she was handling that issue at which point she completly backed down and gave in. Strange.

W is still messed up. I think more so than ever. She doesn't call as much but she still talks like nothing is wrong. I saw her tonight and she was stand offish one minute and then we were laughing and friendly the next.

I really don't understand her behaviour lately. However she is doing something that annoys me. She has now decided that it is ok to refer to her and the OW in a together type fashion when talking to me. For example. "We are taking holidays this week", "we met the new neighbours last night" and so on. I don't say anything about it because I don't want her to feel that she can't talk to me but I don't like it. I think in her mind, her and the kids and OW are a happy family. To me that is just craziness. She also complains about the kids a lot lately. She can't seem to understand why they are not behaving. She doesn't see at all what she is doing to them.

Anyway, I didn't intend for this to be this long. I guess I had more to say than I thought.