Snodderly,

Can you give me a "list of phases" a spouse generally goes through in a MLC. I understand that most MLC flip flop thru the phases. But I would like a tool to recognize them better.

I am in desperate help now...My marriage is probably now a lost cause, don't you think? I am scared like I was during the first 4 months of this.

I am thinking not a lot of marriages can survive this turn in the road especially when there is an OW also adding fuel to H's fire.

Thank you....Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11