I wish I could remain as positive as you. Your wife said some really nice things...but then gave you the 3hr bashing session.
I get those 3 hr bashing sessions as well. In it, my h might say that he loves me, but I can't see the positive in it the way you do.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."