Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
Oh yes. A handsome man and a little baby is a huge turn on for a woman. I remember being at a social event when my dau was a couple months old. My brother would take her from me so he could go talk to the single girls. It was pretty amusing because I totally knew what he was doing.

Sawks, I just worry about you falling on your face. 3 mos is NOT a long separation to be seeing someone new. Let your house sell, get your own place that is JUST YOURS, and for God sake, let the ink dry on the divorce papers. You've not done all your greiving. Not if it only took you a month to get over your marriage.



Well new girl sure liked it lol..

About falling on my face, i would have been worried about that in the past, but I think I am quite strong whereas in the past I was not..it was faked well..not so much anymore. I know what you are saying however, and i will try to sound less "excited" lol.. if i was in a rush to do anything, i'd be wanting to do stuff all the time. We are doing a movie and dinner tomorrow and supper on Saturday, i think that is pretty casual. We did "snuggle" on the weekend at the cabin. That's as far as it went and will go for quite some time. I am a romantic at heart and don't even think i'd try to hold her hand quite yet.. in time..
The thing too is it takes a year for the "ink to dry" here, i decided it is time to move on in my life, i don't think i should have to wait until next spring. It took closer to 3 months to see the WHOLE picture, and I know I have come to a place where I am good. I want the house to sell , i want to move out of the burbs and closer to downtown (work).