JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

Hi Ladies,

I have a lawyers appointment on 8/25 @ 3:00pm. I guess that qualifies as walking to the office not running as snodderly suggests. This is still two weeks away from now. I am working on putting some files together to have concrete information to have a starting point to go from.

I am only going as a fact finding mission. I am not sure I want to hire this guy. I want to go to a lawyer who will have my H hanging by his b*lls from a tree for all to see what a stupid man H is. I don't want a wishy washy lawyer. If I am forced to do this it had better be worth my aggravation, time and pain.

SNODDERLY AND NAEJ,

What are you saying exactly about me now confronting his independence, finances, etc...Why would H now become ugly and mean to me? His actions and choices are creating this confrontation. H should be happy I am putting an end to this disgust SO HE CAN BE independent and free of this sitch. This is what he wants isn't it?

He has OW and no one will get in his way with a D. Me and his S12 will not be a problem for H anymore. Why be mean to me and S12? We have not done one thing wrong to this man. How can he treat us like we are his biggest problem?

I have been very kind to him through all this. I have been his friend, business partner, responsible parent to his S w/o H help at all in 3 years. I have stayed sexually active with H. My home has remained open to him and I have fed him countless times out of love and kindness. He has kept in constant contact with us, as his choice, I never forced encounters with H. Why now be very mean to us? We do not deserve to be cut off financially. Perhaps OW is guiding his bad choices about this issue.

If H wants to control me, what is his gain and agenda?

I will not speak to any in-laws again unless it regards S.

I am so confused about this newest turn of events.

Some experienced DB advice and thoughts would help.

Thank you all.....