Have O/W home # and I want to call

[I'mstillhopeful]

I was tempted to telephone my H's OW and ask her if she would like to leave her husband and children for a married man who turned his back on a 25 year marriage. I even asked a Psychologist if that would be a wise thing to do. He told me that I should call her, but that I would have to live with any repercussions.

I didn't contact her, I'm glad I didn't. It would have made H and OW closer, encouraging them to join together to battle the forces which might stand in the way of their happiness. I don't know whether they still are together but H is beginning to show a bit of curiousity and interest in me. I doubt that would have been possible if OW had gone to him for comfort after I had confronted her with the truth.

Should they still be planning a life together I must try very hard not to tell H that I wish them both all the happiness that they deserve. (Snark)