Oh ((((((sues)))))... i had a feeling after reading that.

It is a setback as puppy said, but go back to your plan, stick to it and really try extra extra hard to seperate yourself from him or you will be right back where you were.

I won't hit you, you are human, and he is still your H. But you know and I know that he will not change. This is the the person you need in your life.

I know how you feel about your family and they are just worried for you. I too have been through that, I did wish though they would just be there for me, with no judgments, that's the hard part.

Him moving into his new place, won't be easy for you, but please don't dwell on what "may or may not" be happening there. Remember in reality his is MUCH more lonely then you are. You have your family and your D who love you very much including friends, what exactly does he have?? Empty friendships.

Hang in there Sue, Everyone makes mistakes, don't be to hard on yourself.

Hugs&kisses

Tal

Last edited by tiredandlost; 08/11/08 10:16 PM.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.