I think another part of the problem is that during the sitch the WAS is SO convinced that the M shouldn't have happend, or didn't happen for the right reasons, that when you do start piecing, and things are going right all the time, you start to wonder yourself if they weren't right all along.
But, the problem is, there is NO perfect person for us. the only perfect person for us is our Lord because he is the only one w/o sin, so while there may be better matched people, no matter WHO we end up with, there will always be someone who does this or that better, and we could nit pick about much if we really wanted.
I also think us LBSers can get that desire for wanting things to move faster. We think, when they finally come home, that we can just work everything out bang bang because now they're back, but it just doesn't work that way. It still takes time, and sometimes piecing is even harder!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
