(((H4H))) I'm proud of you for not kicking the OM's pansy a$$, it would have only made W mad at you. I'm also proud of you for the way you talked with her about it and kept it to the girls, that was good. You did REALLY well and W is seeing that the girls would rather be with you and the stability and love you so easily provide to them. She knows she is being selfish and doesn't choose to help it, but it also makes her feel bad because she knows that the kids see it and recognize it for what it is as well. I thought it was so telling when your D11 said, "Shes not bringing our bags, right?" That is my DS in a nutshell. They can cut right to the heart of the matter with very few words. They recognize the behaviors and are willing to call BS on BS. You are doing a great job dad, they are going to be just fine. ((((hugs right back))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
