Believing H is going to do what he says he is going to do.
Believing in H and his determination to manage two households.
Trusting H!
It's a tough one!!!
But, it's time to do a 180 and let go of some stuff that keeps me anxious, nervous and ultimately...resentful and bitter.
I still think H's affair damaged him more than me....the affair was the 'bomb'...we talked and talked, reconnected BIG time...ups and downs for a year. He almost had a nervous breakdown....and ran!!
Deep breath...
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
