Is there a magic lamp or something that can tell us what is going to happen?? I guess we don't need to know.
Without a magic lamp or crystal ball I can tell you what is going to happen if you persist in listening to what other people tell you about your x, and worrying and going over and over the fact that he doesn't know her.
YOU will be ILL!,your life will be full of tears and pain and continued heartache. Will it bother you x and his wife NO, it wil give him ammunition to say no wonder we broke up,or similar words.
Tell me how does it help you to think that your x thought his new wife had money and now she doesn't? It tells me he is a sad greedy man if that is why he dumped you to be with someone he thought had money-can we say gold digger. So now she has no money and she is still his wife-just how does it help you to know that? Others can tell you of such and such a man who left his wife, m another was miserable and went back to wife number 1,2 or 3. Others can tell you stories like my parents who married after 3 weeks of courtship, 3 months apart then they m and were married for over 40 years! How does it help. You are going to have to detach BIG TIME. NO it doesn't make sense to YOU but it may do to them. Lots of things in life make no sense, life is not fair. You realy don't know how often they saw each other,they could have met up lunchtimes when she was here,he could have seen her on business trips. The point is IT DOES NOT MATTER. Please I am sorry to be harsh sounding but you are obsessing,I know cos I was you. It made me very ill, it almost cost me my life. I think you have no children to this man so there is nothing to keep you attached. Please try and be realistic, keep your love,your memories but please do not torture yourself over how little they know each other. You are divorced.He married another woman.Will it last, does it matter? Would you want him back as he is?
Have you any hobbies or groups you belong to,girlfriends to go out with. Keep busy and try to stop letting him still control your life.
You deserve so much more. I am worried about you,have you seen a Doctor recently? (((((()))))))
