True, I actually had to chuckle over his invitation. Remember the game? Well, he can't convince you to do what he wants one way, so he'll try another avenue. Just pop a note off to him and thank him for the invitation and let it go for now. I'm sorry, but I really do think he's playing mind games w/you. I will be the first to admit if I'm wrong later down the road.
As for the divorce. Of course, he can't deal w/the divorce, etc. It costs money and he would have to do the work. This is a very irresponsible and lazy man at this time. Just let it sit for now.
As for contacting you, just let it go. If he emails, there is the delete button that can be utilized. Nothing says you have to open, read and respond to his emails. Nothing more fitting than going dark for a while. He needs to realize that you are moving on w/your life.
