Update..

2 hours later...(i missed these tm's because I was vacumming and cleaning)

H tm'ed back
4:41pm 'I'm working on it'

then

4:45pm 'I did not mean to sound short...i'm working on getting everything straight. K'

So...now what do I say?

Um...

'No problem...I was focusing on 'walking away from it' and not worrying. Thanks for checking back'

???????????

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home