Ali, thanks for the 2X4 and you are 100% correct I'm not making the changes necessary. MY X is telling me and has told me so many times what he needs and I was always so concerned about my needs. I really value your honesty and I think of all the posts on my threads this one has probably hit home the most. Thanks for your advice. I will do my best to stop my bad behaviour and take advantage of all the advice offered.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
