This is just so hard!!! I get this empty sickening feeling everytime I think about him being M. It was bad enough thinking about him being with OW & now he M'd her! My deal is he didn't know her until he moved out there. I just don't get it. I'm pretty sure they only saw each other those 3 or 4 days on the boat for that scuba diving trip & then as far as I know they emailed, talked on the phone & texted each other from end of June 2007 until Sept. 6, 2007 when he told me he wanted a D. I was only out of town 2 weekends without him during that whole time so she could have come here or him there. But he called me all the time while I was gone so I don't know for sure. Then she came here one weekend in Sept. & he saw her once a month weekend only except for Xmas & Thanksgiving, he stayed longer. Then moved out there full time in March 2008. It just doesn't make sense to me how you could know someone in that short of time & know that you want to marry them. After his 1st M & we met he didn't want to rush it b/c he didn't want to make another mistake.
I did forget to tell you something that my SIL told me, OW had a fancy little car but had to get rid of it & lease something less expensive. So, not sure if that was before the wedding or after & I don't know when my xH figured out she didn't have the money she pretended to have. My SIL told me last fall that my XH had told them that she had a lot of money & they were going to buy houses, fix them up & sell them. My SIL said they can't afford to buy a house, they are renting now.
Sorry to vent & sorry if I keep repeating myself, I'm just in such disbelief.
Thank you all for listening & being there!!! Is there a magic lamp or something that can tell us what is going to happen?? I guess we don't need to know.
