Thanks Upside. I think you are so right about the kids. I don't think they really get it and what it may mean for the long term. Not surprising since they are only 9 and 11 and have no concept of what love is outside of parental-child love for each other. They seem secure right now in the fact that H and I both love them very much.

Besides moving out, H is being a good dad and I am thankful for that.

I don't know what to think about the long term myself! At times, I think about what I would need from H if he were to come back, but then I think I shouldn't bother thinking about that right now because it may never happen and it certainly isn't going to happen any time soon. I have no expectations.


Nature Girl
M 40
H 40
M 15, T 19
D11 S9
bomb 3/07 (MOW)