My kids are exactly why I'm concerned, otherwise I couldn't care less. Obviously this girlfriend has made some enemies or someone wouldn't be telling her ex about her dating. I really hope that she has exaggerated the stories about her ex to my H, because he's really concerned, "Given what he has done in the past, thee is a good chance he will try to carry out his words with actions."
I did express my concerns about my children and their safety to him and he says he's unconcerned, that there's no reason to be worried about them.
Have I mentioned how much I hate drama?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09