Sorry you feel stuck and frustrated. How is the communications with your W now? Can you join a help group, specifically for divorcing dads? Theres an organisation in the uk - fathers for justice, it has a US arm... http://www.f4jusa.com. They may be able to offer you some more objective advice thats not through a paid for L??
Sorry to hear about your headaches, you said you may have to have alot of tests done, are you fearing its something serious, as opposed to stress related? Acupuncture is excellent for pain and headaches, by the way. You can even get it free on the NHS here as so many studies show it works.
Ali xx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
