Reason to Believe on the Lake Erie Shore

[Neilh23]

ok so here's a question on communication...the largest issue facing my W and I...

I said as we were taking the kids out to the car.."its warm out" she responded by not really....i then said "well it's warmer than it was..."

i felt like i didn't allow her to "own" her feelings and told her that she's wrong....i know it definitly wasn't reflective listening......but was that bad? I'm not worrying about the effect it has on my W, i'm trying to figure out better ways to communicate