Well a short guy once told me that we are pretty much the same height, laying down!
I know what you say about forgiveness is the truth. I have to say that I am kind of amazed at myself, that I have done as well with this as I have.
Honesty and trust has been a huge issue for me. After my 1st M I didn't think I would ever trust anyone again. My (current) H made me believe I could trust him. So his EA has really rocked my world.
I want to give myself that gift, and most of the time I understand that he hasn't really been himself. Because of my illness I can forgive that he had to reach out to someone else.
When he points a finger at me thought, it brings back the old hurt, because it reminds me that he is feeling insecure because of his own actions.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
