OMG, I just hate this whole thing. First H wants a divorce, then I find out about the EA. He moves out. We are over. The week after I move out he "reconnects" with gal from EA and they are dating. Then last night someone called EA-gal's XH to tell him she was dating. Now he's making threats to her. H tries to get into my cell bill to see if it was me. (It wasn't.) Then he texts me to see if it was me.
Now I'm all worried that EA-gal's XH will find out who she is dating and confront him. When my kids are there.
What an arsehole my H is for putting us in this situation. AURGH!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09