Karen, you truly have grown quite a bit just from what we have observed of you here in these forums. I am confident that you will come through this a far better person, strong and gleaming like fine steel, tempered by God in the furnace of life.
FYI, in case anyone is interested, Andy Stanley's sermon, parts 1 & 2, can be found here
...under "Dr. Dobson Media", filter by "Last Month", the segments are called "Putting Your Family First - I (07.24.08)" and "Putting Your Family First - II (07.25.08)"
Or you can subscribe to the podcast like I do (which puts me a week or two behind the website.)
I really like how he uses the story of Daniel to launch into this subject matter.