Nit, how are you doing today? Glad BND sent you some links that are comforting.We all need to hide away and lick our wounds from time to time and find strength and comfort. I remember feeling just plain stupid and foolish because I knew for certain my H would be back.Nothing and no one would persuade me otherwise. It was just not possible that he didn't feel the same way as me after a life time together you don't just stop loving someone and move on and those that did or had certainly didn't have the sort of love we shared, ad infinitum. I politely listened but inside I thought no your wrong. So you are not the first to feel this way and you will continue to think this until you are ready to start healing and that takes as long as it takes. Take care.
