I agree that I'm confused. To be honest, I still wish things weren't the way they are, and a little piece of me wants her back. I've decided that that isn't possible because she is practially engaged to her new guy. I'm not ready to move on yet though, so a new relationship just isn't worth trying right now. I think about the xgf too much. Dating the new girl wasn't what I was wanting, so that's why we decided we shouldn't date at this time.
Who knows, maybe somebody will knock me off my feet and I'll completely forget about this.
Thanks for the objective idea. I've got things in mind, but haven't really set goals with dates or anything, so maybe I should do that and keep them with me at all times. Focusing is the hard part. I feel like I need to focus on moving on, but deep inside, that's not what I want...so I get distracted and have a hard time doing it.
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