wow, I just don't know what to say. She is completly deluded and selfish.

and you are right, just making sure your kids are alright is the most important thing, & YOURSELF.

She cannot be saved by anyone, she has to do the waking up all on her own. she's living in a fantasy land. It sounds like she's giving herself permission because "she's" been wronged in the marriage. NO excuse. That's crap! You shouldn't have the luxury of being selfish, especially when you have children to worry about and put first.

She's pitiful.. She's going to start looking very unattractive to you my friend..

:)--hang in there.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.