A Rough Year Continues.... 4

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No golf together, but he invited me to stop by his "guys night" on Friday evening after I helped my oldest son write an offer on a house. I was nervouse about going, but it was fun and we had a good time together.

Then he took me shopping and out for dinner on Saturday. We had a very nice time, and he bought me new golf shoes as a birthday gift.

We kind of talked about going on Sunday, but we had some unexpected company and then the weather turned bad and we had rain. The day went well though, we had some alone and some together time and bbq'd some chicken for dinner.

I think it was the best weekend we have had together in monts, however a kind of strange comment from him this morning as he left for work. I mentioned that I wanted to go after work and hit a bucket of balls since I haden't played this weekend. He made a comment about who was I trying to get better for anyway?, and then mentioned a guy that I work with! WTF?

He caught me totally unaware and it made me angry. I gave him an un DB comment, that maybe his own quilty conscious was making him suspicious of me. He stormed off for work and did not give me a hug or say goodbye.

I did call him after I had been to work for a few hours. I am running an errand for him later today and I needed to ask a question. He was fine on the phone, and I asked him what had happened this morning? He said oh, he was just busy and had to get the trash out. I said, no, about my coworker, and he said oh I don't care if you golf with him or not. I'm just worried about you becoming controlling again.

So I got out the DB skills and validated and the call ended well. What the heck?

At least it wasn't the Alien, but I sure was not expecting to be accused of doing something that would be hurtful to him...

I suppose he is noticing the changes in me and perhaps it is worring him a little. I had a little slip, but it won't happen next time. It seems that each time I learn a little more and am better prepared to handle what he throws me.