Oh Man, this is wild for me!

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I suspected my W was having an affair when she left in March 08. she of course denied it. In April 08, mutual friends confirmed my suspicions after my W confided in them. I confronted my W at that time and she admitted it but made it out to be over and a one time thing.

I just found out who the guy is and the details plus the fact that it is ongoing.

Future? I seriously doubt it. Not for them and most likely not for us. My W would have to commit to some serious sustained therapy. Quite frankly she isn't going to do it and I'm done. I'm picking up the pieces and getting on with my life. Too much pain, humiliation, lieing etc etc.