Neil,

I think you respect their boundaries. If she is asking you to stop then she is feeling it as pressure which does not help your sitch.

If I was asked to stop the coffee, I would probably say soemthing like "That's cool, it was no big deal since I stop there most of the time anyways" then change the subject.

Of course if you feel she is uncomfortable with it, then I would stop it anyways or at least reduce the frequency for the same reasons


Last edited by TwinDad; 08/11/08 02:40 PM.

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