That sermon sounds wonderful, NC! I wish I had heard it long ago b/c I did that too-put most of my focus on the kids. My H puts his on work and exercising. So here we are...But then I know there are many couples that do that and don't divorce or have affairs either. So we can't control our spouses, but as you say just have to learn from our mistakes and do better in the future. I know I have really grown & learned from this experience and you have too! So maybe focus on that instead of the inevitable mistakes we've made? \:\) Karen

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