Yep, done.. i have no more want to get back together, it took awhile, but I just want to move on, get the house sold and get on with my life. I am only 37, lots to live, lots to give, I am a way different person than I was and I will only continue to get better.
In the meantime, I have also met a great girl, who knows my sich and we shall see where that goes.
I hope I don't sound like an ass.. but enough is enough, no more snooping, I don't care anymore.. I wish W the best and hope she can find her way in the future.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
There's nothing wrong with deciding it's time to move on. Just remember that DBing is about you, and apply those things to your next relationship so that it's foundation is something that will hold up over time.
I wish you the best with everything!
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
There's nothing wrong with deciding it's time to move on. Just remember that DBing is about you, and apply those things to your next relationship so that it's foundation is something that will hold up over time.
I wish you the best with everything!
I needed to know that it's OK.... I had such a great time this weekend, and i didn't miss all the drama from home.. thus i didn't miss the wife.. I am ready to move on..
There's nothing wrong with deciding it's time to move on. Just remember that DBing is about you, and apply those things to your next relationship so that it's foundation is something that will hold up over time.
I wish you the best with everything!
I needed to know that it's OK.... I had such a great time this weekend, and i didn't miss all the drama from home.. thus i didn't miss the wife.. I am ready to move on..
thank you Floyd
You're welcome sawks. When I got divorced, I struggled with whether or not it was ok to move on for a long time, so I know what you're going through. Just know that it is ok, and it's something that you have to do when the time is right. Only you can decide that. I'm happy for you.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Red, there was a poster a while back name Fish...you might want to read about his sitch. Not saying you're a lot like him but towards the end he jumped into a new R a little too soon. We haven't heard from him lately but he might be interesting to you.
Only you can decide when you're done. If you truely are then I wish you the best.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Red, there was a poster a while back name Fish...you might want to read about his sitch. Not saying you're a lot like him but towards the end he jumped into a new R a little too soon. We haven't heard from him lately but he might be interesting to you.
Only you can decide when you're done. If you truely are then I wish you the best.
Thanks my ((newfie)) buddy ... i will have a peek to see if i can find his posts
Everyone ganged up on him at the end for reasons you'll see in his thread. Just take it day by day and don't jump into anything right now. If this girl is great then she'll wait until you're sure.
I just want you to think
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Everyone ganged up on him at the end for reasons you'll see in his thread. Just take it day by day and don't jump into anything right now. If this girl is great then she'll wait until you're sure.
I just want you to think
i couldn't find his threads.. oh no no rush... she is in same boat, she just got out a 4 year relationship.. 2 scorpios.. that's scary stuff haha..
yep day by day as always, no need to change philosophy
... i will have a peek to see if i can find his posts