When W and I used to fall out she used to say one of the biggest things she missed was me making her laugh, so making her laugh is key to making her happy. On the house front the amount of work required is more than we initially estimated so the cost are going to go up, but W has taken a second job cos she feels she needs to contribute more. Her words are, "We're in this together".
Hi K,
W and I will celebrate our anniversary this year, but because the date is so close to FIL operation date, she just wants to push back a little just in case anything happens with him.
Fb2/John, It's so easy for us to f'up cos W's will intentionally or unintentionally lay traps. Long story short over dinner with family, the topic turned to receiving flowers and if people appreciated them. W stated in the past that when I had made grand gestures with flowers, she always thinks what a waste, and the money could be better spent on shoes or other items she really likes Anyway I didn't let this upset me. But later she told the assembled guest that in the past she had sent a single Rose to my place of work as a Valentines gesture. This was news to me, and W got all upset because I hadn't remembered. When I asked her when this was, she said maybe last year or the year before. Well I know that's definitely not true, cos since D6 was born I've been off W emotional radar and we don't do valentines cos she thinks it's just a money making venture for the shops.
If she did send me a flower it would have to had been before we got married, cos since we got married, you name the year I can name the argument. Anyway right up until the end of the evening she was still upset cos I couldn't remember the flowers. It took a lot for me not to say you couldn't have sent anything in the last few years cos in that time you we emotionally involved with someone else. I think in re writing history she's got a few things mixed up, I mean could she have possibly sent the flowers to someone else.
Anyway if W is still upset we me now, long term we still going to be ok. Update she ok cos we just shared a joke on the phone about the flowers. In the past a simple thing like that would have meant us not talking for a few days.
