First Post - Advice on a nightmare with no end

[badcompany]

doesn't matter if the affair is physical or emotional. an affair is an affair is an affair. I always make the mistake of making myself the third wheel when it comes to my W and OM. don't do the same. you aren't just a good time. sounds like she is making you out to be the physical aspect, while he is the emotional aspect when they talk. its all or none brother.

"there must be some kinda way outta here...."