First Post - Advice on a nightmare with no end

[badcompany]

jimi,

i wouldn't tell her how you love her or that you aren't detached. act like you ARE detached. play it cool, spend some time together; don't go all out. when it comes to OM, distance doesn't matter, its the feelings. you need to tell her she needs to make a decision. she can't have the cake AND "pretend" to eat it too. you aren't second best. she isn't going to see you have a bright future together yet. her head is cloudy. WAS syndrome.