Own a strat... not a White Woodstock Strat though...
Am I not setting myself up now? I mean, we are involved. We have met each other several times now and even spent a whole weekend together. That said, she is clearly still VERY cagey. She doesn't seem to want to discuss anything to do with the REALITY of our situation. It is very much a case of 'let's pretend'. I like the fact we are 'dating' but surely this can't go on forever. That said, I also accept she probably needs to see that I can just have fun with her and enjoy each others company. It's so tricky.
What do people think around here?
Should I just keep on the way I'm going and not bring the subject up?
Do I mention to her that I am NOT emotionally detached... that I love her?
Do I tell her that I know she is still talking to the OM and that, at least as far as I can tell, she is planning to see him later in the year?
These are my concerns
I suppose it's one thing that, as the OM is thousands of miles away, their relationship cannot be physical for most months of the year for the time being. That said, it is clearly VERY unwise to underestimate or dismiss the reality of the connection between them. They have been speaking nearly a year and met physically twice.
I can't stand it to be honest. I wish she could just see that we could have a bright future and put this man behind her. I KNOW she could be very happy with me.
